What women want is
to feel safe with a man. She wants a sensitive and strong man who is consistent
with his good health and wellness. She wants a partner who supports her
creativity and who adores her love for nature and artistic expression. A woman
needs a man who is secure with himself, meaning he’s not hustling trying to
compete, compare and contrast. He is focused on his unique love for life. She needs
a heartfelt man who enjoys discovering the mystery of his woman and appreciates
her nurturing care, share and inclusion. She needs a steady man who has
integrity and honesty virtues and who wants to evolve his understanding of
love, career, health and family higher. She needs a man on a journey towards discovering
his balance.
Women can offer
such a man golden energy, wisdom, imagination and higher perspective that can
elevate a man’s life experience and bring him closer to his balance. It is not
through words and actions. A women’s transformative power is through her devotion
to her creativity and uniqueness. Her natural compassion and willingness to
grow and evolve to ever closer know her true self can inspire a man to take the
inniative towards becoming the steady and secure tree a women needs to ground
her wild spirit.
But many men are
not steady or secure. Many men are very imbalanced and desensitized. This
creates shallow relationships for men and unfulfilling relationships for women.
However, women direct the relationship. If women were to sustain the higher
caliber for a relationship she would not falter through unfulfilling
relationships and therefore, if many many women did this men could have to
adapt, transform to receive a women. Women are where new life is and men know women
are the key to their rebirth, greater birth and spiritual birth that brings
them understanding of soul, life purpose/career, friendship and rewarding
family life.
The dilemma of
uncaring, unsharing and unincluding men is on women, mothers and grandmothers. Mothers
who do not direct a higher caliber experience with love, career, health and
family raise boys to hustle, dominate, compete, compare and contrast. Mothers without
creativity, discovery of true self, connection to nature and depth through
devotion to joy create environments that do not bring balance to boys. Boys grow
up without higher understanding or perspective, wisdom which creates the
hustling angry boy. He wants a steady and secure life but has a limited understanding
and therefore, doesn’t know how to achieve balance.
Women give men
integrity and dignity and without such things men fall short to trickery and
deception because they don’t have the caliber to reach victory authentically. Women
are authenticity and men are in awe at such mystery. Men want to protect and
support such mystery because it can birth a higher life experience for the
future generations. However, when women fall short of authenticity their men
and boys have no true understanding on how to reach victory. Their understanding
of victory becomes hustle. It is tiring and in the end dulls men into doings
but with no heart or higher life experience.
